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9/5/2020 update | Year 5

Today is the 5-year mark since my injury.

Yeah. Time flies, right?

There is so much to share. So much has happened in the last year alone…

But what’s pressing on my mind is a realization I had while watching the documentary Crip Camp on Netflix:

Netflix describes it as “On the heels of Woodstock, a group of teen campers are inspired to join the fight for disability civil rights. This spirited look at grassroots activism is executive produced by President Barack Obama and Michelle Obama. … A groundbreaking summer camp galvanizes a group of teens with disabilities to help build a movement, forging a new path toward greater equality.”
It basically tells the story of the group of teens with disabilities who fought for eventually what became the Americans with Disabilities Act (ADA).

I really encourage you to watch it, I won’t give more of the story away.

But what I really got from it is that I stand on the shoulders of giants.

Giants with every kind of disability.

Giants with wheelchairs.
Giants with crutches.
Giants with congenital birth defects.
Giants who got hit by buses (watch the documentary).
And other all other kinds of disabled GIANTS.

Now when I walk my dog and cross a street at the curb cutout, I think of this group who occupied a Federal office building in San Francisco for 26 days with all the health issues and risks that I have.

When I park in a handicap parking spot and have the ability to open my door wide and pull out my wheelchair, I think about how these warriors lived life with none of these conveniences.

Many fellow wheelchair users consider me a baby wheelie even at this 5-year mark. I used to refute that moniker.

But after watching this documentary, I realize: yes I am a baby in this new world for me. These people who fought for my ability to access the everyday world with ease are my defacto elders.

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There’s a part in the documentary where some guy in the Nixon administration says that curb cutouts and dedicated parking spots, amongst other things, were a difficult expense for the budget when compared to the percentage of people who would benefit.

I remember one of my first managers at my first job out of college (many, many years ago) said in an off-hand comment during a happy hour the same sentiment. I didn’t think too much of it back then, but it stuck with me because I think I knew it wasn’t right.

“Prejudice can’t survive proximity…”

// Stephen Beresford

What became the ADA isn’t perfect. Enforcement and compliance aren’t perfect. People don’t comply and block/park in/use fake issues in handicap parking all the time.

But holy shit would my life be different if these people’s point of view won out. It would be incredibly harder and more frustrating to operate in this world.

I physically shudder at the thought.

I didn’t have an appreciation for wheelchair living before now because I didn’t have any proximity.

Now that I’m a part of this world and the proximity is my everyday life, I obviously see it from a different angle.

…and I’m not talking about the 4’2” perspective I now have, sitting in a wheelchair.

There is a quote I love by Stephen Beresford, “Prejudice can’t survive proximity, it melts away when you meet and speak to those you fear”.

It’s so relevant in today’s world.

It’s so easy to write off those who are different, especially if we’re not exposed to those people.

But when suddenly a family member comes out of the closet; or someone close becomes disabled … that’s when people’s hearts change and their eyes open. That is when the preconceived notions and priorities change.

It’s disappointing we humans operate that way at times.

But not all humans. And not all the time.

I’ve been fortunate to meet MANY people who have open eyes and open hearts. I make sure to surround myself with them.

It’s a matter of choice, I believe. It’s a matter of whether you’re able to be open or not.

And yes, proximity.

Are you looking down only at your own two feet? Or looking out to see the other people around you?

When you look out, do you do so with judgment – possibly driven by fear? Or could you look out with curiosity – maybe seeking to understand?

Sure it takes a little more energy. But the return is a little bit of connection.

And I’ve never heard of genuine connection as a detriment to one’s life and well-being.

Especially right now.

In honor of year 5, I set a goal to raise funding for Angel City Sports.

A lot of the media I’ve gotten recently is on their behalf, and it’s because they really make sports accessible. When quarantine came, they got creative and went virtual with their annual Angel City Games. And now they’re working on being able to survive.

Here’s the deal. I know if everyone who sees this donates $25, we would triple this goal.

Since I’ve moved to LA, I’ve found an awesome local community of challenged athletes and supporters in Angel City Sports (ACS). In these quarantine times, all non-profits are facing deficits and ACS is not different.

I hope to contribute to the ACS community as they rise LA youth and adults into the Paralympic Games for years to come.

If you have it, drop it in the bucket!

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Angel City Sports Takes Annual Adaptive Sporting Event Virtual

By Kristen Lago Los Angeles
PUBLISHED 12:19 PM ET Jul. 17, 2020

LOS ANGELES – Every summer for the last five years, hundreds of athletes have descended upon the UCLA campus for an adaptive sports event.

Dubbed the Angel City Games, the four-day festival is the signature event for Angel City Sports — a chance for the adaptive sports community to come together and network in a unique and fun way.

This year though, much like many other live sporting events around the globe, the Angel City Games fell victim to the coronavirus pandemic.

But rather than cancel it completely, founder Clayton Frech took a cue from his athletes and adapted.

“Our community tends to already feel and probably be socially isolated and so now, we felt we needed to do something big, special and kinda flashy to bring the community together,” Frech said.

He decided to take the games from UCLA and bring them online.

In a time that’s been so difficult for so many, Frech believed it was important to give his community something to look forward to.

“It’s really the soul of the organization, it’s such a huge part of what we do all year long,” Frech said.

And his athletes are grateful for the opportunity.

Rob Balucas is one of hundreds who will participate over the three week online event. Through his injury, he’s learned to make the best of every situation.

“Getting injured later in life, I knew that the sun was going to come up and the sun was going to come down and I could either waste it lamenting my situation or I could do the best with what I have and just go for it,” he said.

He’s taken that mentality and altered it to the situation he’s now in. The pandemic is something out of his control, but he can choose to take advantage of the virtual event.

“When you’re forced into something you don’t want, but you have to deal with, that’s our game,” Balucas said with a laugh. “To give people a framework to do that stuff through the games is an awesome asset to play together.”

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West Hills paraplegic sets his sights on Ironman championship

A training disaster left Rob Balucas a paraplegic. But it did not end his desire to compete — now, as a para-athlete, in triathlons.

By Tarek Fattal | tfattal@scng.com | Daily News
PUBLISHED: August 6, 2020 at 11:27 a.m. | UPDATED: August 6, 2020 at 1:08 p.m.

Rob Balucas said he focused on three things in 2015: Triathlons, running his web design and marketing business and walking Chloe, his dog. With a “less is more” approach, Balucas was ready to take things to a whole new level.

“It was going to be a breakthrough year,” he said.

Life changed on Labor Day that year. While training for a half-Ironman event, Balucas lost control of his bicycle and toppled over the side of a hill.

Initially, he thought he’d suffered a collarbone break in the fall. He’d recover in a month or so, he believed.

But a deeper look by doctors revealed an L1 burst fracture in his lumbar spine. Balucas was now a T8 Complete Asia Score A paraplegic, losing all control and feeling in his legs.

“The world changed,” said the 42-year-old Pepperdine grad who now resides in West Hills with his girlfriend.

Unable to walk after his accident, Balucas, who resided in San Francisco at the time, was forced to use a wheelchair. He moved into his parents house in Fresno, focusing on occupational and physical therapy.

“I found myself commiserating with others through the physical therapy,” Balucas said chuckling. “Going to the grocery store, or just the movies, with my therapist became routine. But each trip came with its challenges now that I was in a wheel chair.”

Balucas said learning to drive with his hands only, a process he said was expedited by his stepmother, helped him recapture much of his freedom.

“Despite what was going on, I felt her hinting at me — beginning to look for an apartment, starting to drive and be more independent,” he said. “At the time, it seemed insensitive, but in hindsight she was definitely trying to help me. I’m thankful for that push.”

Now training as a para-athlete, Balucas promised himself that he’d be return to triathlons — which generally include long-distance running, swimming and cycling — within a year.He kept that promise, competing in his first triathlon in August 2016.

“By the one-year mark of my accident I’d done three triathlons,” Balucas said, competing in Oakland, Santa Cruz and Malibu. “But it wasn’t without the help of friends and family.”
Rob Balucas crossing the finish line at the Ironman 70.3 event. (Contributing photo/SCSPhotoworks)

Balucas needed adaptive equipment to compete, including a hand-cranked bike for cycling and a racing wheelchair, for the distance-running portion of the competition. A crowdfunding page helped Balucas pay for the gear.

“I’ve always pushed myself,” he said. “I like to see what my limits are. I’ve gotten up to 43 miles per hour on the arm bike — that’s fast.”

Balucas is currently participating in the Angel City Virtual Games presented by Hartford, an event committed to a summer of sports, special events, and community building for adaptive athletes with physical disabilities.

The event is usually held on the campus of UCLA, at such facilities as Pauley Pavilion and Drake Stadium. But amid the pandemic, the festival has gone virtual. Instead of a few days, the event’s various competitions, activities and workshops will last through the end of August.

“For those with physical disabilities, this event is a game changer,” Balucas said. “It’s the same reason why able-bodied people do sports — but times 10. It shows adaptive athletes that there’s a world out there for them.”

The games provide training and challenges in such sports as wheelchair basketball, swimming and table tennis. Instead of physically competing, participants watch a training video from high-level coaches or Paralympic athletes then submit a video of themselves competing in whatever the challenge might be.

“I did the track and field challenge, which was pretty much a pushup-challenge,” said Balucas. “I submitted my video and felt good about it — but then I got crushed by a kid that did 67.”

Balucas’ ultimate goal is competing in the full Ironman World Championship event. The 2020 event was postponed until February, but then rescheduled again to October, 2021, in Kona, Hawaii.

After qualifying for the 2019 world championships in Lubbock, Texas with a second-place finish at the Ironman 70.3, he elected to compete in the half Ironman World Championship in Nice, France. As remarkable as qualifying for the event was, Balucas was left unsatisfied.

“I didn’t finish,” he explained. “There’s a horrendous hill that I couldn’t climb by the checkpoint time.”

Full of renewed desire, Balucas has set his sights on 2021 events — and pushing his limits yet again.

“I’ve seen every type of person cross those finish lines,” Balucas said. “Cancer survivors, obese people, people with one leg, a person with no arms — I’ve seen it all. I know I can do it.”

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